Whether you’re married or unmarried, being a father comes with responsibilities — and rights. Unfortunately, many fathers in Philadelphia and Southeastern Pennsylvania feel unsure about where they stand when it comes to custody and visitation.
At Cooper Family Law, we regularly assist fathers in understanding and asserting their rights in a system that can sometimes feel complicated or biased.
Yes — under Pennsylvania law, both mothers and fathers have equal rights when it comes to raising their children. The law does not favor one parent over the other based on gender. Instead, decisions are made based on the best interests of the child, according to 23 Pa. C.S. § 5328.
This includes:
The right to seek custody (legal and physical)
The right to visitation or partial custody
The right to participate in medical, educational, and legal decisions
If you're an unmarried father in Pennsylvania, your rights depend on whether paternity has been legally established. If you're not listed on the birth certificate, you may need to take legal steps.
Establishing Paternity
Options include:
Voluntary Acknowledgment of Paternity (AOP): A simple form signed by both parents
Genetic testing ordered through the court
Filing a paternity action to be recognized legally
Once paternity is established, you can petition for custody and visitation just like a married parent.
In Pennsylvania, custody is divided into two categories:
Legal Custody – the right to make important decisions (shared or sole)
Physical Custody – where the child lives, including shared, primary, or supervised
Fathers can request any form of custody, and courts must consider both parents equally. The overriding factor is always what is in the best interest of the child, as outlined in 23 Pa. C.S. § 5328.
Common Factors Courts Evaluate:
Parental roles and involvement
Stability of each home environment
Child’s relationship with siblings
History of abuse or neglect (if any)
Ability to provide for the child's needs
Not automatically. If you're not listed on the birth certificate, you have no legal parental rights until paternity is established. This means:
You can’t request custody or visitation
You won’t be responsible for child support (yet)
The child may not have access to your benefits or inheritance
To gain rights, you must take formal action — either voluntarily or through the courts.
Visitation (also called partial custody) allows a parent time with the child even if they don’t have primary physical custody.
Courts typically encourage ongoing relationships with both parents, unless there’s evidence that visitation would be harmful. This applies to:
Divorced fathers
Never-married fathers
Fathers recently establishing paternity
Fathers can petition the court for visitation, and the resulting schedule may include:
Weekends
Holidays
Summer breaks
Midweek visits or overnights
Yes — though rare, courts will grant sole legal or physical custody if the other parent is:
Unfit due to substance abuse or violence
Absent or non-involved
Unable to provide a stable environment
However, Pennsylvania courts generally prefer shared custody if both parents are capable and involved.
Some people search for "child support loopholes in PA" or ways to stop paying. It's important to know:
Child support is a legal obligation and is enforced statewide
Failure to pay can lead to wage garnishment, license suspension, or even jail time
Courts do not allow parents to waive a child's right to support
However, modification is a legal way to adjust obligations based on financial reality.
Avoiding payments without court approval is risky and unlawful. If you believe your support order is unfair, the best course is to seek a formal review with legal guidance.
23 Pa. C.S. § 5324 – Who can file for custody
23 Pa. C.S. § 5328 – Best interest of the child factors
23 Pa. C.S. § 5102–5104 – Voluntary and involuntary paternity establishment
Family courts in Philadelphia, Bucks, Montgomery, Chester, and Delaware Counties follow the same state statutes, but procedures may vary slightly. Many counties now offer parenting classes and mediation options to help parents reach agreements without trial.
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Whether you’re establishing paternity, pursuing custody, or trying to improve your parenting schedule, Cooper Family Law is here to help you advocate for your place in your child’s life — with dignity, respect, and care.
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